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This was actually a definition given to the word LOVE,but I just tot this might come in handy,we go through different Drama in our daily life especially when going through the Island Of Love,all of us Unique wif our own experiences,but at the end we learn and grow from them,.so for some one out there who may need a shoulder to lean on …this might just be the Deal Breaker…Read Below The truth about love… It hurts to love som1 and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone  and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel, maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person we would know how to be grateful for that gift. Love is when you take AWAY the feeling ,the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still, care for that person, A sad thing in life is when you meet somone who MEANS alot to you, Only to find out @ the end, that it wa...

Many people feel insecurities in their relationships.  One day you might wonder why he is staying late, or if she is really out with her friends.  Whether you are suspicious or you are worried, one way to ease this anxiety is to simply talk about it.   While that is the mature and easiest way to figure things out, you can always come up with a more inventive solution.  In this fictional story, the wife is worried that her husband might not be as devoted to their relationship as she is, so she decides to give him a test.  She gets results, but it definitely wasn't what she expected. The other day, a girl wanted to know how her hubby would react if she left without telling him where she had gone.  So she decided to write him a letter saying she is tired of him and didn't want to live with him anymore.  After writing it, she put the letter on the table in the bedroom and hid under the bed. When her hubby came back home, he saw the letter an...

Arif Ibrahim Tambe a man who measures a height of 106 cm had thought he would live alone all his life until he met the love of his life , a woman almost 67cm taller than him ! But at 32 years old, having grown against a backdrop of extreme size prejudice, he finally found love!  His new wife Ameena Ahmed, 21, even agreed to marry him despite the threat of being disowned by her own family. And they have now taken their relationship to new heights by having their first child together.The couple met in a mobile phone shop three years ago and both say it was love at first sight.  Arif, who has a form of dwarfism, was worried she would eventually reject him when she realized the full extent of his care needs like going to toilet , bathroom and even to shower !   He said :  "I said 'if you marry me you will have to do everything for me. You will have to take me to the toilet, to the bathroom and to the shower. I told her everything and she still agreed...

A housewife has been arrested by men of the Bayelsa command of the Nigeria Police Force for allegedly stri pping na ked a 23-year-old woman, in Okaka area of Yenagoa local government council, for having an illicit affair with her husband. The woman was arrested alongside six of her friends who allegedly assisted in assaulting the husband’s lover. Leadership gathered that the husband, a driver attached to the Bayelsa State government house and a native of Akwa Ibom State, reportedly fled the scene of the incident after his wife and her friends caught him and his lover in a bar. It was gathered that the incident which occurred  on Thursday, August 28 at a bar along the Okaka road, attracted a huge crowd, as the aggrieved housewife and her friends descended on the husband’s alleged lover and stripped her naked. Apparently an eyewitness said that the owner of the bar, who has secretly been asked by the housewife to spy on the two, alerted her and her friends at about 7...

  More than 600 women living in the town of Noiva do Cordeiro, south-east Brazil are on the search for potential suitors .Most of the women are aged between 20 and 35 years old.They say they have no men to date or marry them as most of the men available are their brothers, cousins or relatives.Those who are not, are already married  Nelma Fernandes, 23, said 'Here, the only men we single girls meet are either married or related to us, everyone is a cousin. I haven't kissed a man for a long time,We all dream of falling in love and getting married. But we like living here and don't want to have to leave the town to find a husband.' The lack of eligible bachelors has now led the community's many single young ladies for make an appeal for interested men - but only those willing to adapt to living in a women's world.We'd like to get to know men who would leave their own lives and come to be a part of ours.But first they need to agree to do what we sa...

Women who have several sexual partners before getting married have less happy marriages - but men do no harm by playing the field,a study has found. According to  new research by the National Marriage Project, more than half of married women who had only ever slept with their future husband felt highly satisfied in their marriage. But that percentage dropped to 42 per cent once the woman had had pre-marital sex with at least two partners. It dropped to 22 per cent for those with ten or more partners. But, for men, the number of partners a man they appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.  Researchers said the study showed that sex with many different partners 'may be risky' if the woman is in search of a high-quality marriage. It concluded: 'Remember that what you do before you say 'I do' seems to have a notable impact on your marital future. So decide wisely.'   The findings were published in 'Before ...

Researchers found voice modulations make speaker attractive to listener Men were found to vary tone in a 'sing-song voice' like actor Leslie Phillips' Men reached lower minimum voice pitch speaking to 'less attractive' women When it comes to the language of love, it's not what you say, but how you say it. People make subtle changes in their voices when they speak to people they find attractive, say scientists.  And these voice modulations make the speaker more attractive to the listener too, the research by Scotland's University of Stirling found.  Scroll down for video  A study found that people make subtle changes in their voices when speaking to people they find attractive. In the study of 110 heterosexual men and women, who were either English or Czech, male speakers of both languages varied their tone more when they spoke to women they found attractive, speaking in a ‘sing-song’ voice, similar to actor Leslie Phillips.  ...

This is a story of an amazing woman who stood by her man knowing he was innocent and never, ever, gave up on him for 27 years. Not even Winnie Mandela could do that. Mia Schand, proved one of the most famous teachings about love -- that it is patient, endures all things and never loses hope. You are an amazing woman, a true inspiration. Women like youonly come once in a blue moon

The above phrase is intended to be a compliment but is ultimately the demise of a relationship. I blame the belief that you can accomplish anything through hard work. A boyfriend works the same way, right? Push him, encourage him and support him, and he’ll finally finish his degree, quit his late-night bartending job and get on your level. He will get there because you are good for him. Spoiler alert: This isn’t how it goes. You will feel defeated, exhausted and disappointed until it inevitably ends in a giant waste of time. However, it does not have to be a complete waste if you learn, make the change and decide that this time, your partner will be good for you. By dating someone smarter than you and good for you (rather than you being good for him), you will notice: He Will Push You No more settling for good, or even great. This person will always keep you on your toes to make sure you’re continually improving because he is constantly improving, too. We have al...

Some days ago, I went out for drinks with a colleague. Right beside our table, was a group of girls in their twenties? One of the girls was lamenting to her friends about how some guy would not take no for an answer; bombarding her with calls and wanting to meet up. So, to save guys the trouble and girls, the nuisance, here are seven tell-tale signs that help guys know when to back off. 1. She ignores your calls: This is the number one bummer. This was the first answer I was given by most ladies. You think because she gave you her number when you asked for it means she likes you or would pick up your calls. Think again! If all the time you call, she never picks up, maybe you should consider looking for another babe. 2. She gives you the I’ll-call-you-back flip-off: This is very common. If she tells you each time you call her, “Tunde I’m so sorry, I am in the middle of something. I would call you back in five minutes” and then doesn’t, she probably never will. So, don...

Could this be Real? or perphaps Fiction or a Mind Blowing Wish....well this picture as u see above doesnt depict the usual thing we all know...(Guys Proposing) buh rather shows a divergence away from the norms.. Well i wonder if this gets so real as 2 what this picture makes us believe what the trend would be like then.....the guys would be like oh!my GOD (OMG!!!) I just got engaged...very silly (Sounds Odd tho)and What next? showing his Men friends his Engagement RING....Really weird....hmmm,Almost looking gaylike! So i think in my own view is better we keep things neat and  clean the way it has  always been.....kapish!

If you’ve ever been single long enough, you know what you’re potentially facing: a set-up, courtesy of that one aunt that is overly invested in the amount of childbearing years you have left, setting you up on a date with “that nice boy” from the bank or a long-ago summer camp or from his mom’s basement. No thanks. Try one of these non-sucktastic dating methods instead: 1. One of those newfangled apps all the kids are talking about. Okay, seriously. Some of us just aren’t all that into hanging out in bars, trying not to be awkward. This is where apps come in handy. And yes, while some apps lean toward the superficial, like  Tinder  or  Blendr  (not there’s anything wrong with that), there’s more options out there if you’re looking for something a little less exhausting than a string of one-off dates with the nearest appealing match.  Hinge , for example, is a lot  like  a set up – only you initiate contact with friends of friends (as oppo...

by frisk...... First,  a story. A few years ago, I dated a guy I’ll call Jeff. We only saw each other romantically for a grand total of two months, but it was significant because Jeff was the first guy I had dated  since the breakup of my engagement  where it felt like I finally had let go of a lot of the baggage that comes with that kind of life-altering, trust-shattering heartbreak. I had dated a bit since that breakup, and even had a rocky six-month relationship at one point, but I was still so messed up. At first, dating Jeff felt like a breath of fresh air. I felt much more together emotionally, and he was courting me like an adult, planning actual dates and seemingly not playing any games.  On paper, he seemed to have it together — a good job, aspirations, a positive outlook on the world and what he wanted to contribute to it. Physically, the relationship progressed at a much slower rate than I was used to — we only kissed for the first month — and I...